Greetings, citizens of madness!
Today's assignment from the enigmatic Mr. M was to explain the major characteristic that we look for in a spouse. It's kind of hard for me to narrow down to just one characteristic, because that feels kind of mean. So, even though I plan on remaining single, here's my best estimate.
(note: the order of these may not have any correspondence to their importance)
1. A deep and foremost relationship with Jesus Christ
2. The ability to form her own opinions and stand up for them accordingly
3. Wisdom
4. Intelligence
5. Purity
6. Love that sees through all faults (without this, she's probably not going to even date me)
7. A sense of humor
8. Wit
9. An interest in music
10. Courage
11. Self-lessness
12. Responsibility
13. An understanding of the Bible
14. Honor
15. Dignity
16. The ability to forgive
17. An appreciation for nerds (definitely a must)
18. And she would have to be God-Fearing
My basis for this comes from the examples that Jesus laid down for us (o.k., the nerd bit and the music part were my idea. but let's face it: without those added pieces, I'm sunk). While He was on earth, Jesus showed us how a true Christian person should behavior, both in word and action. It is from this standpoint that I try to base my expectations on a future spouse, though my judgment may be flawed.
Peace, love, and a Cupid with good aim,
--JesusFreak
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